And staying on this theme of the personal mixed with the professional, if you had to look back to the time that has passed since you left St. Stephen's and built your career, would you say that it's been a straight path for you in terms of achieving the goals that you've set for yourself or do you feel like you have taken some twists and turns? If so, could you talk about what some of those challenges have been and how you've been able to move past them?
I don't think that anybody achieves much of anything without trials and tribulations. I've definitely not had a straight path to where I am now, and it doesn't necessarily continue to be a straight path either. To specifically refer to some of the biggest tests and challenges, one would be when I lost the man my mom married, who brought me to Rome, Mario. He was a great man and had a profound influence on my life and unfortunately died when I was in college. He was diagnosed with cancer that was unexpected, unknown, and progressed very quickly when I was about 18 years old. I was 19 when he passed, and that was the biggest life challenge I ever had because it was new to me at that time. Unfortunately, as we all age, the concept of losing loved ones becomes more familiar, but that specific event, when I was a senior at Wesleyan, was a true heartbreaker and very difficult to deal with in many ways.
But it also set me up to be even further motivated. Then a few years ago, my biological father passed away as well, who, as I mentioned earlier, was the one who introduced me to the world of music and production. Coping doesn’t necessarily get any easier, but more familiar. Perhaps the uptick to losing someone is that you realize your own mortality and how little time you have to achieve what goals you have in front of you. And since then, some of the greatest challenges have been the moves I had to make to break into this business. I started out in the city working as an intern, making no money, so I had to hold down an extra job to see through my plan. And that was a lot to handle in my early twenties. Nobody made that easy. That said, I did have people help me, and without their help, I wouldn't be here by any means, but then there were the folks in between who, perhaps out of insecurities or spite, made things very difficult. And to get through some of that and just believe in my own talents and abilities at a certain point in time was a huge challenge. Perhaps even still to this day, you know, there's nothing better than a healthy sense of doubt or fear, and certainly self-reflection. In order to truly have confidence in yourself, you need that ability to self-reflect.
And to have a healthy dose of humility, perhaps.
Yeah, exactly.